The Inside Of My Suppression
An outlet and expression of thoughts and feelings that are put in a place to never be heard or seen...
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
A Letter to My Love
Did you miss me? I miss you. I know that sometimes we don't see eye to eye, but hey, that is how relationships go right? How are you today? I hope that you are as fine as you look. Yes lawd! Lol okay let me get to why I am doing this. Sometimes, I like to really get out everything that I want to say in a form of a letter. So here it is. I know you say that I talk too much sometimes, but I wish you knew how much I have to say all the time. Like, all I want to do sometimes is sit there with you and talk and talk and talk. I know that no one has attention span that long. I really contemplate how we have made it this far. I mean, I want to tell you something that I have probably never told you before or have told you before and forgot that I told it to you. I have a problem with commitment. I think that when it has come to past relationships, I have always gotten my way out if I wanted one. Either that or God was telling me that it just wasn't meant to be. Well, when I put it that way, I guess I don't have a problem with commitment. I was trying to connect myself to men that I shouldn't have been with. It has been a year since we have made this official. One. Full. Year. It really does not feel that way to me. To me, it still feels like this thing just started, and we are still in some kind of honeymoon phase that we can't get out of. I love it this way. Our first few months were rough because we are two people that are used to things being the exact opposite of what we were encountering. I can tell, but I wasn't going to give up on us because of it. For the first time in four years, I had fully felt that I could invest my feelings into a man. Yeah I have liked them, and yeah I have had feelings for one, but no one compares to you. When we first started spending time together, something told me that all I needed to do was keep trying. Keep telling you how much I wanted your attention. Keep telling you how much I wanted you around. Keep expressing to you how much I wanted your body, At the same time, I couldn't help but wonder if I was the only one that you were giving this time to. You have been my one and only since the night at the Extended Stay in Sandy Springs. I really didn't want anybody else, and I still don't. I can still feel the kiss you put on my forehead that night. I can still feel your hands around me and the way that you touched me. The sex. Omg the sex. There is a reason I am an addict of you. Every since that first time, I crave you like I crave a drink when I am thirsty and food when I am hungry. I need that. Using the word want in that sentence would be an understatement and a lie. You are a need for me. I need you, and no matter who thinks I shouldn't tell you that I need you, I am always going to tell you that because that is the truth. Week after week, I looked forward to spending time together. It was always fun and helped me relax my mind. You always made it fun for me. Hell, you have never stopped making it fun for me. Every time we are together is another memory that is being made. Yeah we don't always see eye to eye. Yeah I know that I am crazy as hell and I go off sometimes. I know that we are two temperamental people that have very unique and functional relationship, and I have to honestly say that I love every second of it. For the first time in my life, I am not waiting around for the bad stuff to happen. I'm not waiting for you to do something foul or for you to leave or trying to guess when we will be over. I have now become completely comfortable with us and this situation. You are the most amazing man that I have ever met, and it is funny that I say that now because we couldn't even stand each other when we met, I am so glad that has changed. I love you so much, it can't even be put into words. I hate it when you are not around. I miss you when you are gone. I want to me all up under you every chance I get. I need your love and attention. I need your affection and warmth. You make me feel whole. You make me feel safe. You make me feel good. Real good actually. You make me the happiest woman alive. There is no other man that I want on this Earth more than you. As God as my witness, I will not give you up for nothing. You would have to leave me because I am not going anywhere. I always look forward to anything having to do with you, and just so you know, I get excited every time I see your name and face pop up on my phone and hear your ringtone play in my ear. I can't wait until I have you around all the time. I miss you too much when you are gone. You get on my nerves, and I know I get on yours too, but one thing that I do know: I can't be without you. You are one sexy ass man, and I swear I get horny every time I look at you. I mean like so horny I just want to strip you naked and make you fuck me right where we at. Yes yes yes yes yes yes! It is always that serious. I have these thoughts running through my head all the time of us and what our future could hold. God himself and us are the only ones that can really determine that. As long as you are willing to keep me baby, I am yours. As long as you are willing to allow it, you are mine. I can't think of a better person to be my other half than you. From asshole to another, you are my everything. I love you Big Poppa.
Your girlfriend and lover,
Keshia N. Holt (insert hugs and kisses)
Monday, October 10, 2016
A New Drug
Sunday, September 1, 2013
Bullet
The dining room table was clean. Not even a centerpiece touched the surface. The place she called her own was clean and in good condition. It was the perfect scene. She couldn't have asked for a better place to go through with it. It was her fate that this happened this way. She couldn't see any other solution. As she sat on the couch in the living room smoking her black, drinking vodka, cleaning the 9mm she had bought a couple of months ago, she just sat there. Her face was filled with the misery she felt. Her heart was heavy. Finally, she had found her escape. The disappearance she had been so hoping for was being assembled slowly in front of her. Tears flowed slowly but not enough to distract her vision. Carefully she put her toy together, making sure each part was attached correctly. She took a walk to the back room and grabbed the envelopes she had placed the letters in. Each one explaining the love and feelings she had for the receiver. She wanted them to understand they didn't have to worry about her anymore. The concern can cease. Her faith was long gone. Her hope was destroyed. She always said she would die alone. This was going to guarantee it. This was years in the making. In her mind, it should have happened before she started sixth grade. Everyone always told her to think about herself first. This was the one thing she wanted the most. She placed the envelopes on the table. The black was done. The glass was empty. It was time. 9:42am. She placed herself on the couch to be comfortable. Sixty seconds. Awaiting the time she was brought in this world to leave it. The white dress she wore would be ruined. That was her intention. It was as empty as she felt inside. No more feeling worthless. No more insecurity. No more contemplation of this act. No more tears. No more sadness. No more feeling anything. It was about to over. She was done. Finally she was done. 9:43am. She slowly placed the hard steel to her temple. 1...she cried hard...2...she closed her eyes and take her last breath...3...she pulled the last trigger. It was over. Her life had come to a tragic end...but only for a few seconds, the length of time it took for her to realize the gun had jammed and she was still breathing. 9:44 had flashed across the screen...she cliched her chest and wept into the dress with the gun sitting now sitting on the couch. Praying was all she could do. It was the only thing she could think of after another one of her thought out plans had failed...
Sunday, April 7, 2013
Uncomfortable
All it took was to see his name. The thoughts of being in his presence are starting to look more like memories as opposed to a possibility. Friends are they called each other. A relationship they once had seems like it never existed. The closeness they developed has faded. What she thought could have been has lost the potential to be. His hugs brought the joy that she once felt being in his arms. The sound of his voice reminds of the talks that created their loving environment around each other. His bed was a place that she became all too familiar with. His embrace was a place that she couldn't help but to want to be in. The clouding of her thoughts made her feel something almost unreal. The tenderness that was presented was under a pretense that only she could see. Almost taken to a place she haven't visited in years. It was enticing. It was intriguing. It was confusing. It was exciting. It has turned into almost nothing. The attitude that she received only told her that it was never gonna be more than what it was. The actions that were observed and analyzed said it was time to come to an end or a long halt. Patience was gone. Tolerance was tested. Situations made things seem so strained. Friends they remain, but it is hard not to recognize that things are not the same. She still can feel that he cares, but she don't know if he feels the same way. Her attention has started to focus elsewhere. His goals of pursuit have become his priority. She has become infatuated for another in the way she once was with him. A smile crosses her face for a whole other reason. That comfortable place is no more.
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
More Random Thoughts
As much as I love relationships, I don't ever see myself having that works. I want too much and not enough for it to be. Someone will put up with my crazy ass eventually. Until then, I fuck around and enjoy life. Change of thought: I want to fuck the shit outta him. Yes I do. I want to ride his dick until I can't no more. Yeah this is the thought running through my head. Him on top of me with my legs pinned by my head with him gripping the covers behind me fucking me speechless. Shit! His dick is amazing! If I could have that ju everyday...mmmm mmmm shit! Those dreads...omg...that body...the way he sounds when he deep in this pussy and decides to talk...that's the kind of shit that makes me cum so hard. My squirting and body shaking is motivated by him completely. I want to fuck him right now, and if I wasn't at work, I would have him naked in my bed fucking my brains out. He can get it whenever he want it. I don't give a fuck. It is what it is. If it is worth it, I will make time for it, and he got that shit that keeps my sheets and anything else we fuck on fucked up. Even the way he sucks my titties...I loss my mind because I know the dick is there for the taking. Ever had your pussy slapped with a dick? Shit is amazing. Didn't know I liked it til it happened. Fucking is my escape from my own bullshit sometimes. I fuck so that I don't think. I fuck so I don't act any other way. I fuck so that I feel better. I fuck so that i can ignore shit around me. I fuck because I love it. I also fuck to keep shit together. Its amazing how much I fuck. What can is say? Its one of the best things I have going for me. Hell it keeps somebody's attention. I really wish I was at home right now. My bed is my ultimate escape. I sleep away everything that I can. If I could be locked in my room for a few days with everything I need but the bathroom, I would be so grateful. That is definitely one place where o can release my misery in peace. Its my place of solitude. My thoughts are free to roam in their own. I love my bed and my room and if it was up to me, I would have never left it tonight and would stay in it all day tomorrow. Its okay. My days off are coming soon and I plan to spend the first one sleeping and ignoring my phone. Fuck it. People will know where I am. Whatever. I have a high disregard for people's feelings sometimes and that is really fucked up but is the naked truth. Can't put it any other way. Definitely just unbuttoned my pants so that my side would stop hurting and my stomach can breath. Had to redo it though because I just remembered I am at work. I think I am going to end it here before I really start reaching for shit to write.
Random Thoughts
I have to really adjust to being able to talk to people. I mean like really open up because I feel as if I talk too much about me. I never want to be that friend that turns every situation to be about them. That shit is annoying to folks, and I can't turn into that person. I have to find another way to express my feelings and thoughts because I dont think people can really take my level of emotional shit that I have going on inside me. It's crazy how much I love to have people that care but grew accustom to people that were just pretending. Maybe they weren't. I am now starting to see the true and genuine concern of others, and it scares the shit outta me. I don't want to run them off or push them away, but if I keep talking about all this deep ass shit I am feeling, it is bound to happen. No one doesn't want to be around someone that is not truly happy unless they are miserable themselves. I am not miserable. More so content. I have joy in some things and complete sadness in others. Something that I am starting to learn about: balance. Everything in life has to have balance. Wanna see how random my thoughts get? I truly believe that I will never be hood enough for anybody and when someone says I am I am going to run as fast as i can to get away from them just so i don't hurt them in anyway. Some men say they have commitment issues. I am afraid to hurt someone else, and I believe me getting hurt is just now my life is going to go. The shit I think is not only deep but negative as fuck. Years of letting my confidence be destroyed and my insecurities rule my thought process along with no real conversation with others about how I feel have brought me to become of a person of combustible feelings. Investing my emotions into things that i shouldn't. Putting myself in the shoes of someone when I need to be worried about my own. Why do making other people happy makes me happy? Because my happiness has yet to rebuild itself. I love it when everyone around me smiles because it warms my heart. Keeps me from having the negative thoughts I am having now. Some of the things I do with my life are for the wrong reasons but create temporary escapes from my reality. I have been handed so many things on life, and now I have created a life in which everything has to be worked for, even if it is me doing the work. Fuck it. I have done what I have wanted to do for so long but yet feel like I have done nothing at all. As much as I don't want to cry right now, these are unavoidable. This is why I have this for. This is why I write this blog. To get out everything I want to say but can't get out because I dont have an ear that could possibly want to listen to that much talking. I swear, if people let me talk as much as I truly wanted to, it would take me a week to get out everything I have to say. It's not an attention span on earth that can take that. Need to get back on the couch sessions. I may be the keeper of the emotions of two, but there is a reason why this is so. I.have a lot to say. I think a little too far into shit. My optimism has been ripped to shreds over the years and I have let it happen. Always having hope for the best but now expecting the worst. My mind is not in a happy place at the moment, and as much as I want it to be, I am having a problem bringing it there. I must say that my friends are definitely helping with these tweets. Starting to gain a grasp of what it is like to love myself again, but having something to express love to is a joy I have taken away from myself and wont have back for a very long time.
I love being in love. That feeling is like no other. I am a highly sentimental person who hates artificial sentimental shit. I live for real romance. Having someone else's emotions to hold has amplified my sentiments. I hold on to the dream of being someone's permanent significant other. Just pray that it becomes my reality. Right now, it's a no. Yeah I have gotten into some really deep shit, and I know this post is extra long, so I will stop...and continue...
Monday, December 5, 2011
Unstable
It's all pretty much a mystery how a person can have so many moods in a day. The heart is normally the holder of all emotion, but the mind tends to make the heart confuse itself on how to feel. Joy turned to anger. Anger turned to sadness. Sadness turned to calm. Calm turned to pain. A smile to a frown. A frown to a tear. The stream that is following says a lot and nothing at all. The happy place was tapped into but brought along with it the painful thoughts come with what is desired. At times, to not have what is needed for the heart to remain whole is to not have anything at all. Vunerability comes with the removal of the strength once built to withstand anything and with that, weakness of controlling the feelings and emotions of a broken soul starts to overpower the thoughts of the mind. Randomness becomes a new way of expression, and anything can come without warning. Overly dramatic. Highly emotional. Completely off. No self control. It all sees itself running from itself, and the mirror stares back without even the tiniest crack. What is happening is unknown. What is being done is real, but it can be overcome. There is no real winner in this raging battle as it comes to an end at lost. There is no peace, and things might not ever change...
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
A Return to a Love Lost
I remember when I first realized who you were. It was love at first sight. You were standing looking at me, and I couldn't help but to recognize your smile. It was from then on I vowed to love you forever and never mistreatment the greatest chick I know. So happy. So goofy. So full of life. Our bond was something that could never be broken. I thought we were inseparable. As time went on, my love for you got stronger. Through all the teasing and physical stuff, I still loved you. When no one wanted to make me feel like someone, you made me feel welcome. Moving you around was something I hated to do, but it was only for the best. You seen that. You were my life line, my hero, and my comfident. We never fought, and you always knew what to do. My love for you was once greater than I could ever imagine. Then it happened. Somewhere along the line, I started to change. You couldn't make me happy anymore. You tried and your effort had no limit, but it wasnt enough. The negative thoughts of others made you want to reconsider life. My love for you started to fade. It was gradually decreasing, and there was nothing you wanted to do to stop it. You started to let me go, and I started to push you away. Looking at me became harder and harder because you couldn't stand the sight of me. I loved you, and you loved me, but it wasn't enough to keep up with you. I lost you and the admiration that I always had for you and cherished. You were my foundation, and without you, I didn't want to stand. For you, I didn't want to fight. I knew one day you would come back to me, but after all these years, my love for you has wavered. I want you back. I need and want to love you again. Your warmth, comfort, and dedication to me is something no one else can give like you. I miss you. You're the greatest chick I know, and I would to have you back and fall in love with you all over again. I'm thoroughly prepared to put in the effort to make this work between us.
Signed, Me